"I have been a jerk to you" were the greatest words to hear.

Last week Justin and I met for dinner so I could finally give him his graduation gift and so we could talk about the past and discuss some things. Gave him his gift but things were so good, I couldn't get the nerve up to talk about what we needed to discuss because I was so apprehensive over how he could possibly react.

(By the way, he loved his gift. And his parents did too- I was really shocked actually to hear that his dad loved it too and complimented my rose making skills. They put the flowers on their dining room table.)

Soo, I felt guilty then that I didn't say what I needed to, so I told him this then on like Sunday, and asked if we could meet up and talk again. So tonight we went out on another dinner date. After dinner, we sat in my jeep for like 45 minutes and talked.

And I was pleasantly surprised to hear him say "I realized I was being a jerk to you".

The talk went pretty well and we both were able to try to express our feelings. But everything is good with us now, and we both agreed NO MORE JESS. She lies and twists shit around. (See previous post in Those Whirlwind Thoughts.)

The past few months have tested, and proven the strength of our friendship. Neither of us gave up on each other.

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Comments (6)

  1. yayuki

    Good to hear you and your friend are now fine… I knew he would like the graduation gift and I am glad his parents liked it, too. They must have seen the effort it took to make these… don’t let people get in between again… be happy

    July 26, 2014
    1. alishaquigley

      Definitely not. And his mom thought they were just beautiful, and his dad loved them because he loves roses actually and he also used to manufacture metal roses. We’re happy again in our friendship, and stronger than ever. Just hoping we can keep moving forward

      July 27, 2014
      1. yayuki

        That’s great keep the positive vibe

        July 28, 2014
  2. amandaadanielle

    I am so happy for you!

    July 28, 2014
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      July 29, 2014
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